Everybody says that they would like to live a successful life. Yet, few know what success really means to them and even fewer know how to attain it.
I have learned long ago that success is not a destination, but a journey. Success is a day-to-day progressive realization of pre-determined goals that we set. In other words, before we can achieve success, we must first have clearly defined goals in all areas of our life. Whether it is to make your first million, start a charity, build a multi-national company, or developing a nurturing relationship with your life partner
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Success is a day-to-day progressive realization of pre-determined goals that we set. If the actions you have taken have moved you a step closer to your goals, then today has been a successful day. Of course, the goals we set must be that of excellence. The more challenging they are, the more satisfaction we will experience in their achievement.
In order to achieve excellence in your life, you must exhibit the patterns of Personal Mastery & People Mastery. Personal Mastery is the ability to take charge of your life and bring out the best in yourself. People Mastery is the ability to bring out the best in others through your ability to communicate and influence.
Exhibit both qualities in abundance and you will de on your way to phenomenal success in life. I guarantee it.
How Do I Set Goals That Become Reality?
All of us know the importance of setting goals. We know that before we can achieve anything, we must first know what we want. It is said that everything is created twice. Only when we first create something in our mind, will it then manifest into our physical reality.
Goals give us a definite direction with which to focus our energies on. Without goals, our decisions and actions will not be directed and we will end up going nowhere. It is when we stay focused on a specific goal, develop an effective strategy, and keep taking action, we will eventually realize it.
Then, why is it that so many people do not achieve their goals? Why have so many people ‘tried’ goal setting but it has not worked for them? The answer is because they have not set goals in an effective way.
To most people, mere dreaming and setting of new year’s resolution are their ideas of goal setting. This just simply does not work. Many people, for example, make a new year’s resolution to ‘lose weight’. When do they check in on the goal? The following year! And sure enough, it was not achieved. So what do they do? They set another new year’s resolution and the unsuccessful cycle continues.
To set goals that drive you and give you focus, you must make your goals very specific. Unless you know specifically what it is you want, you cannot develop an effective strategy to reach it. Successful people know exactly what they want in life and if you want to be successful, you must do the same.
Specific goals give you the focus needed to take action. When you know exactly what your goal is, you will know exactly what action is required to get there. So set specific goals for yourself and you will find them manifesting soon enough.
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